I don’t know if my first sex is doing well.
Although the first-time love most women will bleed, there will be different degrees of pain, but because of the better feelings of sexual intercourse, women will regard this experience as an obligation, and thus have a sense of belonging; and if the two sides have bad feelings,This will increase the sense of disgust.
銆€銆€The first experience is based on positive feelings – a sense of obligation and a sense of belonging. “The first-time life is very painful and particularly painful.
I really accept it for love, because love has to endure and it has to be paid.
He couldn’t bear it, saying, look at your painful look.
After the first time, I feel that the people in the world have changed.
When you meet someone on the street, you will think that he will do that at night, as if he saw the other side of the person.
“Sexual life has not been successful after we got married. It took only a few days to succeed. There was no pleasure, only psychological satisfaction.”
“We had a sexual relationship after we registered, and there was no antique wedding at that time.”
The first time I didn’t feel anything except the pain.
There is a feeling that I am an adult since then.
“Our first time I didn’t feel anything, I felt a little nervous, not very painful, and came over in a confused way.”
“My first sexual intercourse was 21 years old, before marriage.”
Did not feel particularly painful.
“. He was under great psychological pressure on his wedding day.
I shot when the night was not put in.
He said at the time: I can’t, we have to get divorced.
It took only a month or so after marriage to really shape.
I am a little bit painful and have a little blood.
His penis is small and not physically strong, so his psychological pressure is high.
“The first time it hurts a lot, and sometimes it hurts.”
“The first experience is based on a certain feeling – disgusting feelings. Those who have a feeling of disgusting pain when recalling the first-time experience of the first-time exchange, most of them are not divorced, or have a bad relationship with their husbands.
From this point of view, sexual life and marital relationship are closely related, but it is difficult to assert that the two are the cause of the cause; it is very likely that they are mutually causal – because of bad feelings, they are disgusted with sexual intercourse;The bad impression adds to the deterioration of the marital relationship.
銆€銆€Some women feel bad about their first experience, not because they are disgusted with the matter itself, but because the object of the first-time relationship is not a husband but a lover, and the psychological pressure is too great: “My first time was not with my husband.
At that time, I was not too young.
I remember that when I kissed, I was very scared. I hated people and thought that he had harmed me.
銆€銆€I think that is a kind of fear from instinct, which is invisible in the Chinese education I was born in.
I intervened in the beginning of this matter. He asked me, I always refused, and finally I can’t do it.
In fact, his traditional moral values are also very strong.
We are just ordinary male and female friends, he has a wife.
I am still very heavy about it for the first time.
“Female women feel very different about the first sexual experience, but most of them look at it very seriously, because it is the “first time” in their life experience.
There are many “first time” in a person’s life. I remember a mother who said how she observed her child’s “first time” with joy: first time, first walk, first literacy, etc.
銆€銆€However, in the minds of many women, the first one has different meanings from the other 鈥渇irst time鈥濃€攖he loss of virginity, becoming 鈥渁dult鈥?and becoming a different person from the past; this feeling deserves to be seen asMainly from the psychological, not the physiological.
That is to say, the difference between this “first time” and the other “first time” mainly comes from the norms of society, from the special meaning given by society for sexual behavior.